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Communicate Differently by Speaking Differently

” I am talking to you!”
It seeks answers to why we often fail with communication in our everyday lives and why we –
have a lack of self-confidence
feel restless and out of balance
or our communication is not at same eye level
The text presents relevant theories of communication and personality psychology in a way that is easy to understand for the psychological layperson and takes into account relevant results of psychological research.
Prof. dr. julius kuhl about the book “i am talking to you!”
My offer for sexual, individual and couple counselling / women’s coaching
Good sex is based on self-knowledge.
Experience lasting satisfaction and connection again.
Self-opening, recognising the core of conflicts, avoiding blame and vicious circles. These values are not self-evident but have to be worked out, foundation stones of a relationship, “My tenderness is not what you want? Let’s talk about it!”

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When Love Needs Security: Why Boundaries Can Be an Act of Love
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Between the Coffee Machine and the Calendar: When Attraction Emerges at Work
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Why Some People Activate Our Wounds
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Emotions and Human Nature – What Is the Relationship Between AI and Feeling?
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When People Suddenly Start Yelling – And What to Do Next
Have you ever been yelled at out of nowhere?No warning. No build-up. Just a sudden emotional outburst from someone who raises their voice and…
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